Friends...

Friends are always there for others whether it is to bail someone out of jail or just to hangout to play video games they are always there. Sometimes though people that are your friends one day just disappear off the radar. You can just tell them anything all day and night. You can call them up at any time and just hangout or catch a movie or head to the bar. But then one day they disappear. Sometimes they say why they are leaving but most of the time they really do not say at all. Most people will just blow it off but if the friendship was really close like from grade school through college it can be devastating. The worst thing would be a funeral or a friend getting deployed in the military. Sometimes you will see them if they come back but having them comeback in a casket is not the best way to see them at all. In my life I have only had to carry one casket and that is way too many for me. I am hoping I never have to do that for any of my friends but since most of my friends have joined the armed services the possibility always loom on the horizon.
Some friends though end up in prison or in the wrong crowds and you wonder how they end up there. Maybe it was your fault but sometimes you can never really tell.

What I do wish the most though is that friends actually tell you what is really bothering them. Even if they really do not want to say it at first most of the time it does help out in the end to get some things off their chest. I had the same problem for a big part of my life. I finally cracked during college when I found some close friends that I chat with all the time. Now I can pretty much tell them anything and they understand where I am coming friend. Even if my friends are far away I can just give them a phone call and they will answer no matter what time of day it is.

Just wish that friends can be more truthful instead of back stabbing each other. It really does not make sense how some friends can be two faced and their friends do not even know it. I am sure that if people do make the paper then they would be sure to believe that but most of the time that never happens. Even if their other friends tell he or she about their best friend is trash talking them they won't believe them. I just really do not understand that at all.

Anyway if people are just truthful with each other and themselves for that matter then friendships could possible have more meaning anyway and perhaps friendships can actually turn into more for some.